I love your writing!

You share your experience and views in an engaging, clear and logical manner.

I agree with your opinion on the words "chosen" and "grateful." Not the right words at all. And if "normal" people are not expected to be "grateful" for being born, and for parents who chose to deliver and raise them, why should adopted people?

I'm so glad you were finally able to get more information about your family of origin, and that it helped you make peace with you scripted and real self.

Beautifully well done!