If there's any comfort in this, Al Trautwig is noted for saying some pretty stupid stuff in his commentary, especially when it gets far afield of the actual sport he's supposed to be describing. Here in NYC we get more than enough of him because he is on both the New York Knicks basketball and New York Rangers hockey games, sometimes during the games themselves but usually on pre and post game coverage and intermissions.
Clearly the problem when it comes to adoption is that not all adoptees nor their parents, be they biological or adoptive, will see their circumstances in the same way. So there will never be any uniformity when it comes to this. Trying to dictate some "standard" is nonsense because it's as different as the personalities of the people involved. It's a Rubik's Cube you can never solve the same way, twice.
Patience and working towards helping people who need it really seems to be the way to go for all. Here's hoping.
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Date: 2017-02-09 08:58 am (UTC)Clearly the problem when it comes to adoption is that not all adoptees nor their parents, be they biological or adoptive, will see their circumstances in the same way. So there will never be any uniformity when it comes to this. Trying to dictate some "standard" is nonsense because it's as different as the personalities of the people involved. It's a Rubik's Cube you can never solve the same way, twice.
Patience and working towards helping people who need it really seems to be the way to go for all. Here's hoping.